{"id":166,"date":"2026-05-13T15:49:49","date_gmt":"2026-05-13T19:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/officeofcivilrights.cornell.edu\/education-and-training\/?page_id=166"},"modified":"2026-07-07T16:37:19","modified_gmt":"2026-07-07T20:37:19","slug":"personal-safety-planning","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/officeofcivilrights.cornell.edu\/education-and-training\/welcome\/personal-safety-planning\/","title":{"rendered":"Personal Safety Planning"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is a Personal Safety Plan?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A safety plan is a personalized, practical, interactive plan to improve your safety when experiencing digital harassment, stalking and\/or abuse, preparing to leave an abusive situation, or after you leave. Much of the associated planning and tools can also serve as valuable prevention measures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tailored to your individual circumstances, a personal safety plan will help you prepare for and respond to difficult scenarios and increase your safety at school, home, online, and other places you regularly visit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While some of the steps in preparing a safety plan might seem obvious, it can be difficult to make clear, logical decisions in moments of crisis. Having a safety plan laid out in advance can help you protect yourself and others in high-stress situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is no one-size-fits-all solution for safety planning, but there are multiple, free, campus, community, and online resources that can help you create a safety plan that is right for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(Sources: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/resources\/stalking-safety-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">National Domestic Violence Hotline: Stalking Safety Planning<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.loveisrespect.org\/personal-safety\/create-a-safety-plan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Loveisrespect.org: What is a safety plan?<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Getting Started: General Tips for Victims<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most service providers agree on the following general tips for victims:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Trust your instincts. <\/strong>Victims of stalking or abuse often feel pressured by friends or family to downplay the stalker or abuser\u2019s behavior, but these behaviors pose a real threat of harm. Your safety is paramount.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Call the police.<\/strong> If you feel you are in any immediate danger or fear a threat of harm, please call 911 immediately! Explain why the stalker or abuser\u2019s actions are causing you fear and concern.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Document incidents, behaviors, and interactions. <\/strong>Keep a record or log of your contact with the stalker or abuser. Also, document any reports made to the police or interactions with resources.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Save evidence when possible.<\/strong> Stalkers and abusers often use technology to contact their victims. Save all emails, text messages, photos, and postings on social networking sites as evidence of their behavior. You can also take steps to use your own technology and devices more safely (see the \u201cTechnology and Digital Safety Planning\u201d section below).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Connect with campus and community service providers. <\/strong>Get connected with a campus or community victim service provider who can assist you in developing a personal safety plan and connect you with a network of resources.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stalkingawareness.org\/what-to-do-if-you-are-being-stalked\/#1582827801577-edd73a70-a7bb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SPARC: What to Do if You are Being Stalked<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Campus and Community Resources<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:500\">Cornell University Police<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/cupolice.cornell.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Cornell University Police Department (CUPD)<\/strong><\/a> offers a variety of personal safety resources for students:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>RAVE Guardian App<\/strong>: Download the<strong> free<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/publicsafety.cornell.edu\/public-safety-communications\/cornell-alert\/rave\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">RAVE Guardian App<\/a> to access important phone numbers, a virtual escort, a panic alarm, and allows you to text with the public safety center instead of calling to file a report or for assistance, emergency resources and notifications, text public safety officers, and more. Note that the texting feature in RAVE Guardian includes the option to communicate anonymously.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Individualized Personal Safety Planning: <\/strong>Meet with a community engagement officer in <a href=\"https:\/\/cupolice.cornell.edu\/support\/community-engagement\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">CUPD\u2019s Office of Community Engagement<\/a> to develop an individualized personal safety plan. The officer will help you identify concerns, assess your digital footprint, review reporting options and supportive measures, determine jurisdiction for on- or off-campus issues, and teach you self-defense techniques. Meetings are available in person or via Zoom. You may access this resource directly or receive a facilitated referral from COCR staff. \n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Email: <a href=\"mailto:cupd_engagement@cornell.edu\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">cupd_engagement@cornell.edu<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">Call: 911 or 607-255-1111<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Additional information about CUPD is included in the downloadable Course Resources document in Canvas. <\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" style=\"font-style:normal;font-weight:500\">Confidential Resources: Cornell SHARE Office Victim Advocacy Program &amp; Tompkins County Advocacy Center<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/officeofcivilrights.cornell.edu\/resources\/confidential-resources\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Confidential resources<\/a> <\/strong>are available for individuals who are looking for support or an opportunity to consider next steps, who need care, or who may be unsure whether to report incidents to the university or police. Conversations with \u201cconfidential resources\u201d are kept strictly confidential, and except in rare circumstances, will not be shared (including to faculty, coaches, parents, etc.) without explicit permission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At Cornell, the <a href=\"https:\/\/health.cornell.edu\/services\/victim-advocacy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>SHARE Office Victim Advocates<\/strong><\/a>, and staff in the community-based <a href=\"https:\/\/www.actompkins.org\/services\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Tompkins County Advocacy Center (TCAC)<\/strong><\/a>\u2014both confidential resources\u2014can assist with a broad range of support and client services, including personal safety planning, administrative or legal advocacy, and guidance, referrals, and support in obtaining <a href=\"https:\/\/titleix.cornell.edu\/support-and-resources\/supportive-measures\/no-contact-orders\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">No Contact Orders<\/a> (university directives restricting contact) or <a href=\"https:\/\/officeofcivilrights.cornell.edu\/resources\/orders-of-protection\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Orders of Protection<\/a> (legal documents, issued by courts to restrict contact). Contact:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/health.cornell.edu\/services\/victim-advocacy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SHARE Office Victim Advocates<\/a>:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">Hours: Monday-Friday, 9:00 am -5:00 pm<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">Email: <\/span><a href=\"mailto:victimadvocate@cornell.edu\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">victimadvocate@cornell.edu<\/a><span style=\"color: initial\">(note: email is not a secure form of communication for private or confidential information)<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">Phone: Leave a voicemail message at 607-255-1212<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Note: the SHARE Office Victim Advocacy program is not a crisis service but strives to return messages promptly and schedule appointments as soon as possible.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.actompkins.org\/services\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tompkins County Advocacy Center (TCAC)<\/a>:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">24 Hour Hotline: 607-277-5000<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Note: Contacting TCAC through the 24-Hour Hotline will connect you with both crisis services and ongoing support.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Technology and Digital Safety Planning<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/digitalscholarship.library.cornell.edu\/?p=22\">Cornell Library\u2019s Self-defense Against Digital Harassment<\/a><\/strong> tool, outlines step-by-step guides and resources for: doxxing defense, securing accounts, and encrypted communications.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/it.cornell.edu\/digital-harassment\">Information Technology at Cornell\u2019s Digital Harassment information hub<\/a><\/strong> details types of online harassment, guides and resources for preventing harassment, protecting oneself, and support for victims, and relevant university policies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Safety Net Project<\/strong><\/a> provides multiple resources for technology safety in the context of intimate partner violence, sexual assault, and violence against women, in both English and Spanish:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/technology-and-sa\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Technology &amp; Sexual Assault\/Sexual Violence page<\/a> provides an overview of Technology and the Dynamics of Sexual Assault, Privacy Concerns, Technology and Root Causes, and resources.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/resources-survivors\/technology-safety-plan\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Technology Safety Plan: A guide for Survivors and Advocates<\/a> includes practical information to prioritize safety, identify the abuse, steps to increase security, and steps to increase privacy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>And, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/resources-survivors\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Technology Safety and Privacy: A Toolkit for Survivors<\/a> includes detailed resources for Basic Technology Safety, Data Security, Internet of Things (IoT) &amp; Connected Devices (like smart home devices, cameras, cars, and mobility data like scooters, rideshares, and taxis), Online Privacy &amp; Safety, Personal Information &amp; Data Privacy, Phones, Securing Accounts &amp; Devices, Stalkerware &amp; Location tracking, Technology &amp; Sexual Assault, and Teens &amp; Technology.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.endtab.org\/\"><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.endtab.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">EndTab (End Tech-Enabled Abuse)<\/a><\/strong> provides cyber-abuse safety training to help keep people safe in the digital age. EndTAB has published a series of free, on-demand <a href=\"https:\/\/endtab.thinkific.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">webinars<\/a> that can help you understand and combat technology-enabled abuse, including:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/endtab.thinkific.com\/courses\/relationship-ai-dvice\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Relationship AI-dvice: How Chatbots Are Influencing Dating, Connections and Breakups<\/a>: A 75-minute webinar exploring the impact of AI on relationships.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/endtab.thinkific.com\/courses\/AI-mental-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">AI x Mental Health: Navigating Support, Safety, and Stigma<\/a>: A 75-minute webinar exploring the imact of AI on mental health and therapy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/endtab.thinkific.com\/courses\/women-girls-ai-chatbots\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Love, Fantasy &amp; Abuse: How Women and Girls Use AI Chatbots<\/a>: A 90-minute webinar exploring the impact of AI on women, girls, and relationships.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/endtab.thinkific.com\/courses\/d-ai-ting-safety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">D-AI-ting Safety: How AI-Powered Apps are Reshaping Modern Dating<\/a>: A 75-minute webinar exploring the impact of AI on dating apps, relationships, and connection.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/endtab.thinkific.com\/courses\/ai-healthy-masculinity\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Healthy Masculinity in the Age of AI: Navigating Challenges to Relationships and Identity<\/a>: A 75-minute webinar exploring the impact of AI on healthy masculinity.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Online and National Resources<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/plan-for-safety\/create-your-personal-safety-plan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>National Domestic Violence Hotline has an interactive online tool<\/strong><\/a> to help you develop a personal safety plan and includes tips for technology-facilitated abuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">National Domestic Violence Hotline<\/a> provides resources, 24\/7. Contact:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">Chat: live online chat<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Text \u201cSTART\u201d to 88788<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stalkingawareness.org\/risk-and-safety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>SPARC: Risk Assessment &amp; Safety Planning<\/strong><\/a>, published at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stalkingawareness.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">stalkingawareness.org<\/a>, includes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stalkingawareness.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Safety-Strategies.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Safety Planning Strategies for Stalking Victims<\/a> guide that provides basic considerations and general safety strategies, guidance for stopping communication with a stalker, and safety planning tips specific to your workplace, school, home, and safety planning around technology;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A <a href=\"https:\/\/ukcdar.uky.edu\/ls\/index.php\/727369?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Stalking and Harassment Assessment &amp; Risk Profile (SHARP) tool<\/a> designed specifically to examine and assess stalking;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stalkingawareness.org\/documentation-log\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Stalking Incident &amp; Behavior Documentation Log and Stalking Victim Handbooks<\/a> in the following languages: English, Spanish, Arabic, Burmese, Chinese (simplified), Japanese, Korean, Portuguese, Tagalog, and Vietnamese; and<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Multiple relevant webinar recordings, including \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=LFm0ZS1z1U8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Risk Assessment in Stalking Cases<\/a>\u201d and \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=cswaLF6VEJw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Stalking as a Lethality Factor<\/a>.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sources<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>What is a Personal Safety Plan?<\/em><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/resources\/stalking-safety-planning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">National Domestic Violence Hotline: Stalking Safety Planning<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.loveisrespect.org\/personal-safety\/create-a-safety-plan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Loveisrespect.org: What is a safety plan?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Campus and Community Resources:<\/em><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/cupolice.cornell.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Cornell University Police Department (CUPD)<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/health.cornell.edu\/services\/victim-advocacy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SHARE Office Victim Advocates<\/a><span style=\"color: initial\"> (Confidential Resource<\/span>)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.actompkins.org\/services\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tompkins County Advocacy Center<\/a> (Confidential Resource)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/digitalscholarship.library.cornell.edu\/?p=22\">Cornell Library Self-defense Against Digital Harassment<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/it.cornell.edu\/digital-harassment\">IT @ Cornell\u2019s Digital Harassment information hub<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Online resources for creating a Personal Safety Plan:<\/em><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehotline.org\/plan-for-safety\/create-your-personal-safety-plan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">National Domestic Violence Hotline tool: Create Your Personal Safety Plan<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stalkingawareness.org\/what-to-do-if-you-are-being-stalked\/#1582827801577-edd73a70-a7bb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">SPARC (Stalking Prevention, Awareness, &amp; Resource Center): What to Do if You are Being Stalked<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: initial\">The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Safety Net Project<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.endtab.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">EndTab (End Tech-Enabled Abuse)<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"What is a Personal Safety Plan? 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